Ian James Foster
| Location | ♥~♥~♥~♥~♥~poulton Le Fylde, Nr Blackpool.♥~♥~♥~♥~♥~ Ian Tragically And Predictably Took His Own Life. Our Lovely Ian Set Fire To Himself And Died As A Result Of His Injuries |
| Age | 28 years |
| Cause of Death | Organ Failure |
| Date of Birth | 10/11/1977 |
| Date of Death | 08/09/2006 |
| Visitors | 17,465 since 06/11/2006 |
| Creator | Sheila Mum to Ian and wife of Trev |
| Helpers | Mum |
I WOULD LIKE TO WISH ALL MY GTS FRIENDS A PEACEFUL CHRISTMAS...THANKYOU FOR ALL
YOUR SUPPORT I AM SO SORRY ABOUT THE LACK OF CANDLES MY COMPUTER IS PLAYING
UP....TAKE CARE EVERYONE!!
WORDS CANNOT EXPRESS THE LOSS WE FEEL IN OUR HEARTS.
I MISS MY DARLING SON IAN SO MUCH, MY HEART ACHES TO SEE HIM. MY FRIENDS ON HERE
YOU HAVE ALL BEEN A WONDERFUL SUPPORT TO ME. love Sheila xxx
"The time came when the pain it took to stay,
was greater than the pain it took to go"
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IAN BORN AT BLACKPOOL VICTORIA HOSPITAL, (ironically the same hospital that
deprived Ian of life)... IAN JAMES FOSTER ON 10TH NOVEMBER 1977... HE WENT TO
HEAVEN ON 8TH SEPTEMBER 2006
My so loved and adored, loving, kind and beautiful son Ian on the 6th September
2006 went to Blackpool Promenade with a can of petrol and poured it over
himself. Then set himself alight. On the 8th September 2006 he died as a result
of his injuries.
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Fireball man in critical condition
By Citizen reporter
A man is in a critical condition after he set himself on fire on Blackpool's
North Pier yesterday at about 2pm.
Hundreds of onlookers saw the man, believed to be in his twenties and from
Lytham, jump into the water before being pulled to shore by officers from
Blackpool's beach patrol.
He was taken to Blackpool Victoria Hospital by the North West Air Ambulance and
later transferred to the Royal Preston Hospital, where his condition is
critical.
A spokesman for Lancashire Constabulary, said witness statements had been taken.
"We are investigating the incident and are in the process of trying to notify
the gentleman's next of kin," he said.
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Fireball man still fighting for life (Blackpool Gazette)
A MAN who turned himself into a human fireball on Blackpool beach continues to
fight for life.
The 28-year-old was seen by horrified onlookers on Wednesday afternoon dousing
himself with a liquid, believed to be petrol, before becoming engulfed in
flames.
Witnesses on the Promenade close to North Pier have told police they shouted to
the man to head for the sea to extinguish himself.
Blackpool Beach Patrol, paramedics and members of the fire service helped get
the man to the air ambulance, which took him to the Royal Preston Hospital.
He was transferred to the specialist burns unit at Wythenshaw Hospital in
Manchester and is said to be suffering from 80 per cent burns.
His condition was today described as critical.
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The day before I had spent the day on the internet reading my rights on the
mental health act and armed with this I rang the hospital where my son Ian was a
patient and begged them to section my Ian. Then I rang his psychiatrist
(unbeknown to me he had never set eyes on Ian) and begged him to to section Ian
for his own safety as I KNEW Ian was going to harm himself. THE HOSPITAL AND THE
PSYCHIATRIST COMPLETELY IGNORED ME AND SAID 'Ian is fine'
I wasnt informed this last time that Ian went into hospital he had been in a few
days and then on the monday he rang us and told us he was there. Because of his
behavior the week prior to his admittance this is why I knew that he was at
risk. He appeared to be doing so well but it became quite apparent to me and
Trev that he was getting really sick. We wernt informed why he had gone in this
time but because of the way he had been to us this is why I made a desperate
plea to the hospital and his psychiatrist to be sectioned. We were only
informed after Ians death that he had gone in as he had rung the police and told
them he was going to do something serious to make them kill him.....now if this
is not a sign that he was extremely unwell I do not know what is...he was at
risk to not only himself but others too.....and yet the hospital knew this and
they still did not section him they said 'he was fine'. Well he may have been
fine for that moment but he was probably sedated up to the eyes anyway.
On the 6th September my husband and I had arranged with Ian to meet with him at
2pm there was to be a meeting to discuss his care. When we arrived at the
hospital he wasnt there. The hospital informed us that he had gone out. Anway
we had the meeting with out him, unbeknown to us while the meeting was being
held Ian my precious son was being airlifted to hospital.
I didnt know about this until about 6pm when a policeman knocked on our door and
told us that Ian had had an accident and that he was in Wythenshaw burns unit.
We went almost immediately. I was there until the 8th September sitting by his
bed. He wasnt concsious or in pain. Ian was bandaged from head to toe. Just a
slight hole for his mouth and eyes but you couldnt recognise him in anyway
except by his height he was a strapping 6 foot two.
Me Trev Julie and the kids were all devastated. We had the funeral at Poulton
new cemetary where he is buried. My ex husband at the time would not ALLOW me to
have my Ian cremated and he was prepared to take me to court or have Ian left in
the funeral home. After a month I relented and had Ian buried. It just goes to
show what a wicked man Ian's real dad is he not only did a serious rape to a
family member but had to have his own way even in Ian's death. The service
though was beautiful, the music by Freddie Mercury, Don Maclean and Enya was all
so fitting...and afterwards we sent 50 balloons into the sky with messages on
from us all. Ian loved John Lennon singing 'Imagine' and that was played too at
his funeral along with puff daddy.
We still havnt had the inquest yet I think it will be sometime this year.
Rethink the mental health charity are providing me with a barrister for that
time.
Ian's dad Trevor died since on the 22nd May 2007
http://trevor-herbert-rothwell.gonetoosoon.co.uk/..Ian thought the world of Trev
and Trev thought the world of Ian. They often went for games of snooker and to
watch the football at City. Ian was really into his music ..everytime we saw
him he had his earphones in! listening to his latest ...he loved listening to
Enya and Queen amongst many others
Ian has a daughter Ellie Mae a sister Julie and two nephews Louie and Charlie he
loved them all. He also had me his mum and Trevor his dad
Ian loved Mancity and fishing and betting at the bookies, he loved going to
Cornwall especially Mousehole where we spent a family holiday.
Ian had great interest in all the galaxy and sometimes you would see him gazing
at the stars, we even went to the lakes especially to see the stars in the sky
once on a cloudless night.
In september 2005 exactly a year before Ians death Trev and I took Ian away on
holiday to Devon for a week. We had the most fantastic time in fact this
picture of Ian was taken on the way home at Symonds Yat.
We still havnt had the inquest I expect it to be sometime this year.
One of the reasons I suspect that Ian took his own life was partly due to the
fact that his ex wouldnt allow Ian to see his daughter Ellie Mae, he was
heartbroken over this as he was a brilliant father. We did go via the court at
one stage but Ian gave up as he found the process too upsetting. Another thing
was Ian's real father did a serious sexual assault on a family member and Ian
could never really cope or get over it.
I hope my darling son that you get the peace now in heaven that you didnt get
here on earth. I love you darling. mum
"The time came when the pain it took to stay,
was greater than the pain it took to go"
There is a supportive group,welostourlovedones throughsuicide, ..if you have
lost a loved one by them taking their own life do join us we can help you
through the many dark days.
BLESSED ARE THEY THAT MOURN FOR THEY SHALL BE COMFORTED.. MATTHEW 5:4
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May the memory of your loved one. Who ment so much to you. Be a sourse of consolation. And of comfort for you too. Although they had to leave your side. Your really not apart. For all your loving thoughts of them. Will live on in your heart. All my love Anne xxx
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We are sad within our memory
And lonely, this Christmas Day,
For the ones we loved so dearly,
Have forever been called away.
We think of them in silence,
No eye may see us weep.
But many silent tears are shed,
When others are asleep.
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Pauline Wheeler (Best Friend)4 weeks ago
SNOWMAN KISSES
Snowflakes from Heaven as white as can be!
Can build a Snowman for
all to see!
He's cute and cuddly and full of good wishes!
And wants to give you a bunch of his kisses!
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Pauline Wheeler (Best Friend)4 weeks ago
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all the best of health for 2009 to all of you
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Linda and steve Davies (Friend)4 weeks ago
WITH LOVE AT CHRISTMAS
We're wondering what Christmas in Heaven is like
As we grieve alone and pray,
longing for one who has gone before
To spend Christmas in Heaven today..
And so in our dreams we wander far
From the scenes and sounds of earth
‘Til we catch the strains of the Heavenly choir
As they sing of the Christ Child's birth. .
The Angels we envision there
As they join in the festive play
And there amid the throng is our Loved One
Spending Christmas in Heaven today..
There's joy in the faith that teaches
When our life's work is done
Of a place in Heaven awaiting
And the crown we worked for is won..
In our grief may we learn well the lesson
So to work and suffer and pray
As to merit the joys of our loved one.
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Pauline Wheeler (Best Friend)4 weeks ago
FOR IAN
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Dawn Jones December 6, 2008
IAN'S FAMILY
THIS CANDLE IS TO GIVE YOU STRENGTH AND COMFORT
WITH XMAS COMING UP.
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Susan Johnstone (Friend)December 6, 2008
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Pauline Wheeler (Best Friend)December 6, 2008
MERRY CHRISTMAS
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Pauline Wheeler (Best Friend)December 5, 2008
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Charlotte Chris Mallins Mum lit a candle on Jan 6, 2009, 7:50 pm
Sending some love
as always ~
Charlotte xxxxx
Frances Dunbar lit a candle on Jan 6, 2009, 6:16 pmPASS THIS CANDLE
ON
FILL IT FULL OF
LOVE
AND SEND IT TO YOUR
ANGEL
WAITING IN HEAVEN
ABOVE good night
angel love to mum
xxxx 
Shirley Franklin lit a candle on Jan 6, 2009, 4:25 pmI'm lighting you
this candle and
filling it with
love and sending it
to you, in heaven
up above xxxx
Linda and steve Davies (Friend) lit a candle on Jan 6, 2009, 1:47 pmPauline Wheeler (Best Friend) lit a candle on Jan 6, 2009, 12:37 amOur beautiful,
special Angel, we
miss you so much,
our world is empty
without you. The
light has gone from
our lives, and will
never be the same
again. All we want
is you back. 