Ian James Foster
| Location | ♥~♥~♥~♥~♥~poulton Le Fylde, Nr Blackpool.♥~♥~♥~♥~♥~ Ian Tragically And Predictably Took His Own Life. Our Lovely Ian Set Fire To Himself And Died As A Result Of His Injuries |
| Age | 28 |
| Cause of Death | Organ Failure |
| Date of Birth | 10/11/1977 |
| Date of Death | 08/09/2006 |
| Visitors | 16,095 since 06/11/2006 |
| Creator | Sheila Mum to Ian and wife of Trev |
| Helpers | Mum |
MY PRECIOUS SON IAN WOULD BE 31 ON THE 10TH NOVEMMBER 2008, WORDS CANNOT EXPRESS
THE LOSS WE FEEL IN OUR HEARTS.
I MISS MY DARLING SON IAN SO MUCH, MY HEART ACHES TO SEE HIM. MY FRIENDS ON HERE
YOU HAVE ALL BEEN A WONDERFUL SUPPORT TO ME. love Sheila xxx
"The time came when the pain it took to stay,
was greater than the pain it took to go"
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ANYONE WHO HAS EXPERIENCED THE TERRIBLE PAIN OF LOSING A LOVED ONE BY THEM
TAKING THEIR OWN LIFE PLEASE JOIN THE GROUP WHERE YOU WILL FIND COMFORT AND
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IAN BORN AT BLACKPOOL VICTORIA HOSPITAL, (ironically the same hospital that
deprived Ian of life)... IAN JAMES FOSTER ON 10TH NOVEMBER 1977... HE WENT TO
HEAVEN ON 8TH SEPTEMBER 2006
My so loved and adored, loving, kind and beautiful son Ian on the 6th September
2006 went to Blackpool Promenade with a can of petrol and poured it over
himself. Then set himself alight. On the 8th September 2006 he died as a result
of his injuries.
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Fireball man in critical condition
By Citizen reporter
A man is in a critical condition after he set himself on fire on Blackpool's
North Pier yesterday at about 2pm.
Hundreds of onlookers saw the man, believed to be in his twenties and from
Lytham, jump into the water before being pulled to shore by officers from
Blackpool's beach patrol.
He was taken to Blackpool Victoria Hospital by the North West Air Ambulance and
later transferred to the Royal Preston Hospital, where his condition is
critical.
A spokesman for Lancashire Constabulary, said witness statements had been taken.
"We are investigating the incident and are in the process of trying to notify
the gentleman's next of kin," he said.
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Fireball man still fighting for life (Blackpool Gazette)
A MAN who turned himself into a human fireball on Blackpool beach continues to
fight for life.
The 28-year-old was seen by horrified onlookers on Wednesday afternoon dousing
himself with a liquid, believed to be petrol, before becoming engulfed in
flames.
Witnesses on the Promenade close to North Pier have told police they shouted to
the man to head for the sea to extinguish himself.
Blackpool Beach Patrol, paramedics and members of the fire service helped get
the man to the air ambulance, which took him to the Royal Preston Hospital.
He was transferred to the specialist burns unit at Wythenshaw Hospital in
Manchester and is said to be suffering from 80 per cent burns.
His condition was today described as critical.
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The day before I had spent the day on the internet reading my rights on the
mental health act and armed with this I rang the hospital where my son Ian was a
patient and begged them to section my Ian. Then I rang his psychiatrist
(unbeknown to me he had never set eyes on Ian) and begged him to to section Ian
for his own safety as I KNEW Ian was going to harm himself. THE HOSPITAL AND THE
PSYCHIATRIST COMPLETELY IGNORED ME AND SAID 'Ian is fine'
I wasnt informed this last time that Ian went into hospital he had been in a few
days and then on the monday he rang us and told us he was there. Because of his
behavior the week prior to his admittance this is why I knew that he was at
risk. He appeared to be doing so well but it became quite apparent to me and
Trev that he was getting really sick. We wernt informed why he had gone in this
time but because of the way he had been to us this is why I made a desperate
plea to the hospital and his psychiatrist to be sectioned. We were only
informed after Ians death that he had gone in as he had rung the police and told
them he was going to do something serious to make them kill him.....now if this
is not a sign that he was extremely unwell I do not know what is...he was at
risk to not only himself but others too.....and yet the hospital knew this and
they still did not section him they said 'he was fine'. Well he may have been
fine for that moment but he was probably sedated up to the eyes anyway.
On the 6th September my husband and I had arranged with Ian to meet with him at
2pm there was to be a meeting to discuss his care. When we arrived at the
hospital he wasnt there. The hospital informed us that he had gone out. Anway
we had the meeting with out him, unbeknown to us while the meeting was being
held Ian my precious son was being airlifted to hospital.
I didnt know about this until about 6pm when a policeman knocked on our door and
told us that Ian had had an accident and that he was in Wythenshaw burns unit.
We went almost immediately. I was there until the 8th September sitting by his
bed. He wasnt concsious or in pain. Ian was bandaged from head to toe. Just a
slight hole for his mouth and eyes but you couldnt recognise him in anyway
except by his height he was a strapping 6 foot two.
Me Trev Julie and the kids were all devastated. We had the funeral at Poulton
new cemetary where he is buried. My ex husband at the time would not ALLOW me to
have my Ian cremated and he was prepared to take me to court or have Ian left in
the funeral home. After a month I relented and had Ian buried. It just goes to
show what a wicked man Ian's real dad is he not only did a serious rape to a
family member but had to have his own way even in Ian's death. The service
though was beautiful, the music by Freddie Mercury, Don Maclean and Enya was all
so fitting...and afterwards we sent 50 balloons into the sky with messages on
from us all. Ian loved John Lennon singing 'Imagine' and that was played too at
his funeral along with puff daddy.
We still havnt had the inquest yet I think it will be sometime this year.
Rethink the mental health charity are providing me with a barrister for that
time.
Ian's dad Trevor died since on the 22nd May 2007
http://trevor-herbert-rothwell.gonetoosoon.co.uk/..Ian thought the world of Trev
and Trev thought the world of Ian. They often went for games of snooker and to
watch the football at City. Ian was really into his music ..everytime we saw
him he had his earphones in! listening to his latest ...he loved listening to
Enya and Queen amongst many others
Ian has a daughter Ellie Mae a sister Julie and two nephews Louie and Charlie he
loved them all. He also had me his mum and Trevor his dad
Ian loved Mancity and fishing and betting at the bookies, he loved going to
Cornwall especially Mousehole where we spent a family holiday.
Ian had great interest in all the galaxy and sometimes you would see him gazing
at the stars, we even went to the lakes especially to see the stars in the sky
once on a cloudless night.
In september 2005 exactly a year before Ians death Trev and I took Ian away on
holiday to Devon for a week. We had the most fantastic time in fact this
picture of Ian was taken on the way home at Symonds Yat.
We still havnt had the inquest I expect it to be sometime this year.
One of the reasons I suspect that Ian took his own life was partly due to the
fact that his ex wouldnt allow Ian to see his daughter Ellie Mae, he was
heartbroken over this as he was a brilliant father. We did go via the court at
one stage but Ian gave up as he found the process too upsetting. Another thing
was Ian's real father did a serious sexual assault on a family member and Ian
could never really cope or get over it.
I hope my darling son that you get the peace now in heaven that you didnt get
here on earth. I love you darling. mum
"The time came when the pain it took to stay,
was greater than the pain it took to go"
There is a supportive group,welostourlovedones throughsuicide, which you can
find on the links page on GTS..if you have lost a loved one by them taking their
own life do join us we can help you through the many dark days.
BLESSED ARE THEY THAT MOURN FOR THEY SHALL BE COMFORTED.. MATTHEW 5:4
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Pauline Wheeler (Best Friend)Yesterday
missing you
words simply can't convey
how much i'm missing you
the sun doesn't seem to shine
and the sky's no longer blue
the ache within my heart
just will not go away
it is me when i awaken
until the end of every day
and even as i go to sleep
my thoughts are all of you
of the happy times we've shared
that will last my whole life through
so i just wanted you to know
how i am feeling so much pain
and how i'm longing to see you
and to hold you once again
Frances Dunbar Yesterday
I will never be happy in this so called life
Taking IAN has destroyed my life
He filled my life with so much joy
OH HOW I LOVED MY PRECIOUS BOY
Now my days are filled with sorrow
MY CHILD HAS GONE HOW DO I GET THOUGH TOMORROW !
Forever in my thoughts shiela and ian
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Shirley Burris (Friend)Yesterday
sheila please accept my apology i just didnt think i would never do anything to hurt you, i cannot believe what i did i just didnt think, i only realized when you replied. i am so very sorry pauline x
Pauline Hart 2 days ago
With love
An Angel kissed my tears away today
when I was sad.
I wasn't feeling quite myself
my day had been so bad.
I felt a warmth brush by me
that quickly dried my tears.
A gentle, kind, and loving touch
that seemed to hold me near.
Immediately, I felt so much better
and the day seemed brighter too.
I guess that's just the way you feel
when an Angel comforts you.
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Pauline Wheeler (Best Friend)2 days ago
THINKING OF YOU ALL.XXX
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A BIG THANKYOU FOR EVERYTHING YOU DO GOD BLESS YOU MY FRIEND.XxX LOTS OF LOVE LINDA DAVIES XxX
Linda and steve Davies (Close Friend)2 days ago
GOD BLESS
I said a prayer for you today
And know God must have heard.
I felt the answer in my heart although He spoke no word.
I didn't ask for wealth or fame,
I knew you wouldn't mind,
I asked Him to send treasures of a far more lasting kind.
I asked that He'd be near you at the start of each new day,
to grant you health and blessings and friends to share the way.
I asked for happiness for you in all things great and small,
but it was for His loving care I prayed the most of all xxx Love Anne xxx
Xxx ANNE B xxX 3 days ago
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With love to my special friend xxxx
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life isn’t so bad.
Now I've given a hug to you,
Somehow I feel much better too
Hugs are better when they're shared
So pass one on to show you care.
Sent with all my love and thanks
sue xxx
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